Looking at it, the husband asked, "O My wife, what happened to you? What makes you cry? "
"I cried because I felt very tired in the care of the family and do all the housework," she said. "I take care of our seven children with a variety of their character. I have to provide food, clean the house, wash clothes very much. I work 24 hours a day. It feels, I'm no longer able to do all this. "
The husband smiled. "What should I do?" He asked.
"Please get me a slave woman who can help take care of everything."
"Of course, I will find him. But, just listen to me for a moment, "said the husband, stroking her with great affection.
"God always helps his servants that never despair and sincere in doing anything containing goodness. You are a wife who is very patient in keeping the family, a mother who became a role model for a seventh son, and become a companion salihah with the severity of your duties. I could only find a maid to ease your job. However, if you keep doing all the good it to our families so that God will remove all wrong and sins. "Said her husband.
The husband then said, "My wife who salihah, women who never tired of maintaining his family and sincere with what it does, God will assign every grain of sweat into the good that can be fused ugliness as well as raise in rank."
She stroked her husband were still sobbing embarrassment, then invited to sit back in the living room is very simple kitchenette, then the husband went on his advice,
"Try to remember back Testament The Prophet told Her daughter Fatimah, who dipersunting Ali Bin Abi Talib was very poor, which is when it also was complaining to his father Muhammad SAW as formerly refined now turned into a rough and abrasions because every day should mashing wheat alone, processing and cooking. There are 10 WILL He told his daughter:
1. O Fatimah! Indeed, women who make flour for her husband and her children, someday God will set him kindness of every grain of wheat that diadonnya, and also God will melt and increase the degree ugliness.
2. O Fatimah! Indeed, women who sweat when mashing flour for her husband and children, Allah will make between hell and her seven veils separator.
3. O Fatimah! Surely the woman who anointed his sons hair and then comb it and then wash his clothes, then God will assign a reward for him as the reward of a thousand people feed the hungry and to clothe the naked thousand people.
4. O Fatimah! Indeed, women who assist the needs of its neighbors, then God will help him to be able to drink the lake Kawthar on the Day of Judgement.
5. O Fatimah! It is more important than the whole virtue of the above is the pleasure of the husband against wife. If the husband is not the pleasure to you, then I will not pray for you. Know Fatimah, Anger husband is the wrath of God.
6. O Fatimah! When a woman is pregnant, then the angels ask forgiveness for him, Allah is set for him every day a thousand goodness, and melt a thousand kejelakan. When a woman feels pain to give birth, then God has set a reward for him the same as the warrior God's reward. When a woman gives birth abortion, makabersihlah his sins like when he was born from his mother's womb. When a woman dies in childbirth, then he will not bring the slightest sin, in the grave will have a beautiful garden that is part of the garden of paradise. God gave him the same reward with the reward of a thousand people performing the Hajj and Umrah, and a thousand angels ask forgiveness for him until the Day of Judgment.
7. O Fatimah! When a wife serving her husband during the day and night, with a sense of fun and sincere, then God will forgive his sins and put her clothes on the day of Resurrection in the form of clothing that completely green, and assign him every hair on his body a thousand goodness. Allahpun will give him the reward of one hundred times the Hajj and Umrah.
8. O Fatimah! When a wife smiling in front of her husband, then God would look with a full view of love.
9. O Fatimah! When a wife to her husband sleeping mats spread with a sense of pleasure, then the angels were calling from the sky called the woman in order to witness the reward of charity, and God forgive his sins that have past and future.
10. O Fatimah! When a woman's husband and combed head oiling, oiling his beard and cut his mustache and nails, then Allah will give him drink beautifully packaged, imported from the rivers of paradise. God will make it easier for her death's door, and make the grave part of the garden of paradise. God also set him free from the pains of hell and can traverse shirathal mustaqim safely.
His wife was in tears because they feel embarrassed. Since then, he never again complain.
SubhaanAllah, this will constitute the most expensive pearl value, especially for any wife who crave piety.
How the Great and noble position of Women in the household when He willingly and sincerely undergo nature as a wife
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